We arrive mid-evening in Avsallar to the welcoming faces of Katherine’s childhood friend, Meghan, and her husband Mehmet. Mehmet grew up in Ankara, but his parents have retired to the Mediterranean Seaside town of Avsallar. They graciously welcome us into their home/apartment. To our surprise, we realize that in order for us to have the guest bedroom, Meghan, Mehmet, and their two children must sleep in the living room. Everyone kept saying it wasn’t an inconvenience, but we are sure it was, so we do thank them kindly for their graciousness.
Because we are in the middle of Ramadan, which encourages fasting between sunrise and sunset, Mehmet who is following the religious practice is starved upon arrival. We promptly sit down to a lovely dinner of tomato soup, eggplant topped with beef, tomatoes and peppers, rice and bread. Dinner was followed by tea on the balcony with baklava. How could we forget the pictures, not sure but we did.
We start the next day, with breakfast of tomatoes, cucumbers, feta cheese (which they just call white cheese), mozzarella type cheese, hard-boiled eggs, bread, and jam. Because breakfast is after the sun has risen, we are not joined by the family which is fasting (Mehmet and his parents – they have already eaten breakfast at 3am before sunrise).
Mehmet and Meghan are wonderful hosts and take us out to see the sites. First up is a beautiful waterfall. We sit at a table near the waterfall and snack on the local fair: flat tortilla-like bread with various cheeses and shepherd’s salad (tomato, cucumber, parley).
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In the afternoon we ventured to the town of Side, which sits on a historic peninsula with ruins throughout from a Roman-era amphitheater, government building, waterfront mausoleum and a smattering of other buildings covering the peninsula, some excavated and some part of the local shops (i.e. they built on top of them or used the historic walls in the new architecture). Not sure how UNESCO feels about this? While in the town of Side, we enjoyed fresh strawberry smoothies and extra cold Turkish ice cream > both amazing.
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Upon returning to the apartment, we assisted Mehmet’s parents in making homemade Turkish ravioli. We had the ravioli for dinner. It was tasty, although we are undecided if either Chris or Katherine wants their hot ravioli covered in warmish yogurt sauce. Tidbit on Chris: his mother serves everything piping hot and in general Chris prefers steaming hot dishes so cold or tepid dishes aren’t as desirable, so if we make this dish at home we might leave out the yogurt… which basically turns it into ravioli with red-sauce which is more Italian than Turkish.
Dinner again is followed by tea. All meals are followed by tea. Tea is severed in small sand-timer looking glasses, so servings are small but consumed throughout the day.
After tea, we went to town to benefit from Mehmet’s fathers’ community connections. Chris fondly likes to call him the mayor of Avsallar. Which in our case resulted in bargain shopping prices and expert Turkish haggling skills. We purchased a Turkish lamp for half the price we would get as American tourists. We are very happy with our purchase and excited to hang the lamp once we get home. Chris also enjoyed how all haggling starts with a cup of tea. The shop owner and Mehmets’ father walked out of the shop to sit under a tree. We are not sure if they were haggling or talking about the weather but the price came back right. Also in Turkish culture when greeting someone there are different levels. If you are close friends, it is a kiss on either cheek. If they are less close it is a forehead rub on either side. If you are less than that it is a handshake.
We wake up to another breakfast of tomatoes, cucumber, cheese, and bread. Katherine thoroughly enjoys the breakfast spreads. Chris personally enjoy’s Mehmet the barista and the wonderful Turkish coffee he makes.
We head out “early” which is mid-morning for the Ozcan family. We venture to the town of Alara, which coincidentally is the name of their daughter. The town of Alara was once a stopping point on the Silk Road. The town has a castle and a ‘Han’ which during the days of the Silk Road was a place to sleep and rest along the journey. We climb to the castle, which includes a few steps, dark tunnels and several bats. After the morning walk, we ate at a floating restaurant on the river in town. The kids jumped in the ice-cold river while the adults took pictures. We ate rice, lamb, French fries (also popular on Turkish menus although not always served hot), chicken and salad. Chris’ new favorite drink is lemon bitters Schweppes.
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After lunch, we went back to town to utilized Mehmet’s fathers’ community connections and haggling skills (again) to purchase Turkish spices and a few other items to bring back as gifts. It was very nice of Mehmet and his family to go out of their way to assist us in our shopping desires.
That afternoon, Mehmet’s sister, husband and two adorable children arrive. At the end of Ramadan, it is common for people to take a Holiday. The Holiday break is often shared with family over lots of food. As such, the sister has come down from Kayseri to be with the family. The apartment has grown smaller at this point, but we are still given the guest bedroom while the parents move upstairs to a friend’s unit.
Dinner is always timely once the sun goes down – everyone is very hungry from fasting. Tonight’s dinner consists of soup (choice of Okra, tomato or yogurt), dolmas (smaller warm dolmas made of grape leaves stuffed with rice and larger cold dolmas made of bell pepper-like veggies stuffed with rice), bread (always bread) and borek (lasagna like pastry looking thing served hot with no red sauce or cheese). Dinner was followed with watermelon and tea (always tea > caffeine after dinner… not in the US, but in Turkey you take seconds).
After dinner, we went for a night walk on the beach and Chris tried to capture one of the hotels lit up Las Vegas-style.
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The next day we spend the morning on the beach, playing in the water, and lounging before our shuttle to Antalya and flight to Izmir. We thoroughly enjoyed our authentic Turkish experience and time with friends.
Several items of note: We couldn’t get enough of Mehmet’s father. He knew everyone in town. He was like the town mayor. We couldn’t communicate a word with each other, so he would speak very slowly assuming that would help. Despite the lack of understanding, he had a way of showing you things and smiling that made you feel welcome.
Mehmet’s mother’s cooking is wonderful. We left very healthy, full, and happy after every meal > Thank you.
Meghan and Mehmet haven’t aged a bit… in case anyone was wondering. They have a very happy family and are off to their next adventure moving to Rhode Island from London in a month’s time. We wish them all the best.